In my life I have a few very close friends that have stood the test of time and have remained with me throughout all my ups and downs, whether it be standing right by my side or holding me in their heart.
I have also had close friends that were there in my life only for a season. And while those didn't last, I still cherish them for what they were and how much they made me who I am today.
Recently, I have made a new friend. I'm not entirely sure which of the two above categories this friendship will fall under but I do know that it has very quickly grown into something really special to me. What has been the most surprising to me is the fact that this is so clearly what is meant for the both of us right now.
I have no fears or insecurities about sharing who I really am to him. All of my trust issues (which, come on, let's face it, I have my reasons to have a good fair share of them) are not registering. I have no walls up with him at all. I know there is nothing that I can't talk to him about. In the very short time span that we have known each other, I have been completely open and honest about who I am without reservation. At all. This alone has me shaking my head and wondering what is going on here. And I think he's doing the very same thing.
While my kids have been gone camping with their dad these last two weeks, he and I have been almost inseparable, just enjoying getting to know each other better. I will always look back on the this time that we have had as a blessing, an opportunity to build a solid foundation for a friendship that I hope will last forever. Who knows though. Time will tell. Sometimes life happens and things aren't meant to be. What I do know is that whatever this is - it's pretty rare, at least for me anyways. He's a gift, and I am a very lucky girl.
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So. I think you were married 10 years (ish?) and learned lots! Some things are just so much more important than others.. and some peole are just so much more worth it than others. I also think that since you are still technically married you could look at him as a friend w/o reservation. No need to impress him - you're married! To be able to talk to someone without having girl issues run through the back of your mind constantly is a little piece of heaven! And lucky for you - he is worth getting to know! It really is like getting the whole pie, when you've had a slice of loser pie once too often ;)
hmmm. no idea if that made sense, but my brain knows what the words really are supposed to be saying.
This is the EXACT way Will and I met. Just friends. Someone who knew and understood and i could just be me and he could just be him.
And i knew, no matter what layed ahead, I had a friend for a moment of time, or a longer period. Who knew?
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